Letter from Frances Miller Seward to Lazette Miller Worden, October 3, 1846
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Letter from Frances Miller Seward to Lazette Miller Worden, October 3, 1846
action: sent
sender: Frances Seward
Birth: 1805-09-24
Death: 1865-06-21
location: Auburn, NY
receiver: Lazette Worden
Birth: 1803-11-01
Death: 1875-10-03
location: Canandaigua, NY
transcription: mmh
revision: crb 2018-07-16
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Auburn Oct 3rd — Saturday
My dear Sister,
I have yielded to the importunities
of Harriet
hurried letter when I would much have
preferred writing a long one tomorrow
She has been here almost every day since
you left and when your letter actually
came and said nothing about her boy
she was grievously disappointed — I told
her I thought the conduct of John
Miller
you were not willing to subject Mrs
Wayland
to stay only one day — She of course
promised very fair — said so far as William
was concerned she was glad John had come
home — that William would be quite as conten-
ted without his company &c — she says
that John reported that he left because he
was made to wash dishes and withal
that Witherill’s
his going and finally gave him money
to return with should he be discontented
You will attach what importance you choose
to this communication I cannot vouch for
[top Margin] Tell Fan I saw John
at the first Church
last Sunday but they kept such a continual
spitting that I did not “love them” — Caroline
Smith
11 oclock — Nothing from my boys — Remember
me to Henry
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2
its truth — Maria
John not to remain though she has not seen
John — they would would have evidenced more
principle by keeping him in the first place —
he is there in his old place — Harriet more
over wishes if Mrs Wayland does not want
John ^William^ that you would take him — I gave no
encouragement to this suggestion — she intimates
that she has been at some expense to prepare
him to go but this is not of any consequence
as I presume the child would have required
clothes here as well as there this winter
the climate not being materially different —
To sum up you are particularly requested to answer
this letter the same hour in which you receive
it in Harriet proposes inflicting another long
call upon me in company with her cousin
Bloomfield, Monday night — You don’t
know dear Sister how much I have missed
you in every thing since you went away —
I feel every day more and more as years pass
by “the worth of that affection, that sanctified
by the bonds of nature is capable of triumphing
over every vicissitude of circumstances, every
waywardness of character, and of adhering to
its object through evil and through good
report
[top Margin] Mary Morgan
and I were invited by Kit
ladies
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3
of our dear Grandmother
“since my sister
the world” — Willie
Willie often reproaches me for not letting
him go home with you — Fanny says “Aunty
gone home” “baby sorry” — You can hardly
conceive how much her vocabulary has
increased in one week she seems to talk
about every thing — and tries to call the
name of any thing she hears — Seth Hawley
spent Wednesday with us — I went with
him and Henry
are horrid places — but the misguided reasons
that could desire to hang a being so bere[ ft ]
Reason: wax-seal
of reason and intelligence is still more
horrible — he does not know half as much
my Fan — as Hawley said after talking to
him half an hour he has no remains
of mind left except some glimmerings
of memory — I was affected to tears by his
helpless comfortless condition — I pray God that
he may be insensible to the inhumanity of his
relentless keepers — He stood upon the cold
stone floor with bare feet — his upon a cot bed
stead with nothing but the sacking underneath
and a very small filthy blanket to cover
him — I came from his cell thoroughly chilled
[top Margin] Mrs Wright
the necessary explanations.
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4
with ample protection from the cold — how melancholy
it is to see a whole community warring with such
a “poor handful of earth” — Yesterday I had
the three Mrs Millers
Miss Sheridan is here making a copy of Henrys
portrait for herself — it will probably take
her 10 or 12 days — She meets with no
encouragement and perhaps it will be as well
for her in the end as I think miniature painting
would entirely destroy her eyes — she suffers
much with them now — She is exceedingly ambitious
and would not easily relinquish a profession in which
she dreams of fame with perhaps as much reason
as many young artists who have been doomed
to disappointment before her — I advise her if she
must paint to paint in oil — Miss Fletcher
Mrs Alvah Worden
Canandaigua
AUBURN N.Y.
OCT 3
Type: postmark
[right Margin] gone — my parting call was very mal apropos
the evening before she left as it interfered with an oyster
supper — Sam
[left Margin] h
1846
Auburn Oct 3rd — Saturday
My dear Sister,
I have yielded to the importunities
of Harriet
Birth: 1807 Death: 1888-08-20
and am going to
write a shorthurried letter when I would much have
preferred writing a long one tomorrow
She has been here almost every day since
you left and when your letter actually
came and said nothing about her boy
Birth: 1830
she was grievously disappointed — I told
her I thought the conduct of John
Miller
Unknown
had discouraged her you andyou were not willing to subject Mrs
Wayland
Death: 1867-01-28
to the trouble of getting a boyto stay only one day — She of course
promised very fair — said so far as William
was concerned she was glad John had come
home — that William would be quite as conten-
ted without his company &c — she says
that John reported that he left because he
was made to wash dishes and withal
that Witherill’s
Birth: 1792 Death: 1871-11-16Certainty: Possible
people tried to preventhis going and finally gave him money
to return with should he be discontented
You will attach what importance you choose
to this communication I cannot vouch for
[top Margin] Tell Fan I saw John
Unknown
and Day
Birth: 1817-02-23 Death: 1878-02-28
at the first Church
last Sunday but they kept such a continual
spitting that I did not “love them” — Caroline
Smith
Birth: 1824 Death: 1881-01-22
called the morning you left about11 oclock — Nothing from my boys
Birth: 1830-07-08
Death: 1915-04-25
Birth: 1826-10-01
Death: 1876-09-11
me to Henry
Birth: 1822-02-03 Death: 1888-11-24
and
the Waylands
Death: 1863-10-16
—
its truth — Maria
Unknown
thinks the
Witherills persuadedJohn not to remain though she has not seen
John — they would would have evidenced more
principle by keeping him in the first place —
he is there in his old place — Harriet more
over wishes if Mrs Wayland does not want
John ^William^ that you would take him — I gave no
encouragement to this suggestion — she intimates
that she has been at some expense to prepare
him to go but this is not of any consequence
as I presume the child would have required
clothes here as well as there this winter
the climate not being materially different —
To sum up you are particularly requested to answer
this letter the same hour in which you receive
it in Harriet proposes inflicting another long
call upon me in company with her cousin
Unknown
Bloomfield, Monday night — You don’t
know dear Sister how much I have missed
you in every thing since you went away —
I feel every day more and more as years pass
by “the worth of that affection, that sanctified
by the bonds of nature is capable of triumphing
over every vicissitude of circumstances, every
waywardness of character, and of adhering to
its object through evil and through good
report
Publisher: Desilver, jt. & Thomas Place of Publication:Philadelphia Date: 1834
” — How frequently do these words[top Margin] Mary Morgan
Birth: 1813-02-16 Death: 1893-10-14
had a party of 20 Tuesday – Henryand I were invited by Kit
Birth: 1808-06-04 Death: 1877-04-03
to spend the evening the otherladies
Unknown
all went to tea – We staid at home —
of our dear Grandmother
Birth: 1751 Death: 1835-10-03
recur to my memory“since my sister
Certainty: Possible
died I have been
alone inthe world” — Willie
Birth: 1839-06-18 Death: 1920-04-29
and Fanny
Birth: 1844-12-09 Death: 1866-10-29
are
wellWillie often reproaches me for not letting
him go home with you — Fanny says “Aunty
gone home” “baby sorry” — You can hardly
conceive how much her vocabulary has
increased in one week she seems to talk
about every thing — and tries to call the
name of any thing she hears — Seth Hawley
Birth: 1810-02-10 Death: 1884-11-10
spent Wednesday with us — I went with
him and Henry
Birth: 1801-05-16 Death: 1872-10-10
to the
jail to see Bill
Birth: 1824 Death: 1847-08-21
— jailsare horrid places — but the misguided reasons
that could desire to hang a being so bere[ ft ]
Supplied
of reason and intelligence is still more
horrible — he does not know half as much
my Fan — as Hawley said after talking to
him half an hour he has no remains
of mind left except some glimmerings
of memory — I was affected to tears by his
helpless comfortless condition — I pray God that
he may be insensible to the inhumanity of his
relentless keepers — He stood upon the cold
stone floor with bare feet — his upon a cot bed
stead with nothing but the sacking underneath
and a very small filthy blanket to cover
him — I came from his cell thoroughly chilled
[top Margin] Mrs Wright
Birth: 1806-12-25 Death: 1875-01-04
called the day you
left I madethe necessary explanations.
with ample protection from the cold — how melancholy
it is to see a whole community warring with such
a “poor handful of earth” — Yesterday I had
the three Mrs Millers
Unknown
to visit me — and Clarence
Birth: 1828-10-07 Death: 1897-07-24
—Miss Sheridan is here making a copy of Henrys
portrait for herself — it will probably take
her 10 or 12 days — She meets with no
encouragement and perhaps it will be as well
for her in the end as I think miniature painting
would entirely destroy her eyes — she suffers
much with them now — She is exceedingly ambitious
and would not easily relinquish a profession in which
she dreams of fame with perhaps as much reason
as many young artists who have been doomed
to disappointment before her — I advise her if she
must paint to paint in oil — Miss Fletcher
Birth: 1823-04-06 Death: 1908-11-01Certainty: Possible
hasMrs Alvah Worden
Canandaigua
AUBURN N.Y.
OCT 3
Stamp
[right Margin] gone — my parting call was very mal apropos
the evening before she left as it interfered with an oyster
supper — Sam
Birth: 1820-03-09 Death: 1893-07-07
went with her to
Albany
[left Margin] h
Hand Shift
Birth: 1803-11-01 Death: 1875-10-03